Oh, how karma works. It's so fabulous.
A few months ago I cut ties with a former friend. There was a switch in her. She was suddenly so negative and I had to break free from that. And she failed to realize that some of the relationships she had were because of me. But honestly that's neither here nor there.
Anyway, we have two mutual friends. Neither of them are aware that we don't speak any longer. One of our mutual friends sent us a group message asking how we were and this and that. I admire our mutual friend so I was trying to think of something to say when former friend wrote a message.
Over these last few months I had been thinking about this once friend and thinking that maybe I should be a little more forgiving. Our mutual friend responded and my former friend quickly ended the conversation before I even got a chance to say anything. I had thought about messaging my former friend to let her know I was thinking of her, praying for her situation but I'm glad I didn't. It's evident that she has no interest in that whatsoever.
So I privately messaged our mutual friend and we exchanged a few messages (non related to my former friend).
But you know, I feel good about myself. I made the right decision a few months back. And if one day my former friend wants to reach out, then great but if not, it doesn't hurt me. Because our mutual friends just adore me to bits for who I am.
